This is a very unapologetic angry post so if you're not having a good day and have enough of rantings or if you're having a good day and don't wanna spoil it, or if you wanna continue liking me and think that i am an angel sent from the sky above (No? You all never ever think that way of me? Okay. LOL) then please do yourself a favour DON'T READ THIS POST.
If you decided not to heed my advice and still continue to read on.. Then hello. I hope in good faith that you like me a lot. Cox if you don't, i don't know why you're reading it anyway. Why? You don't like me but wanna share the ups and downs in my life with me still? Lolol so sweet one.
Okay so i wanna talk about MANNERS today.
If you follow me on Instagram and Twitter you'd probably already know that i dyed my hair blue.
And it's one of the few crazy things in life that i WANT to do. You know, before i die? Like it's in my bucket list. To have a head of blue hair. I did green before, FML i looked like hulk, then after shampooing 7 times a day, i look like a rotten kailan. But anyway, we're talking about my blue hair.
Right. So i did it!!! =D YAY~
But of course for everything i do and share, there has to be people commenting and i expected that but still expecting it and dealing with it are two different things. Lol.
It's like i dislike you and you dislike me, and i am fine with it and i already know it. But when i actually see you in real life, pointing a middle finger at me, i can't promise you that even with a lot of mental preparation that i did, i won't chop off your finger and feed it to the cat. Okay?
To continue on the topic about manners. I share with you a few kinds of comments i'd get okay.
They consist of positively positive words lol.
"You look great in blue!"
"Blue suits you!!!"
"This hair colour is so unique!"
"OMG YOUR HAIR I LOVE IT"
Okay. These opinions are opinions out of good intention and politeness. And from what i know, compliments are free and encouraging so everyone should feel free to throw them around. So erm.. Thank you? =D If you think my blue hair works for you, thank you =D It's kinda weird i mean haha. It's not black nor brown so.. But haha thank you! *a bit shy* LOL. Extra love for you guys who like me anyway~~ =DDD
And then there are also Constructive comments
These are made up by avoiding negative words.
"Qiu i think brown suits you better!"
"Blonde hair looks a lot better on you"
"I miss your brownish hair, Qiu =("
"Perhaps try another colour the next time? Might work better!"
These i am also perfectly fine cox these are how "freedom of speech" should be. Yes you can say what you want even if it's opposing opinions from others but holy god mother shit, BE POLITE AND MINDFUL ABOUT THE WAY YOU PUT IT ACROSS. I kinda think lotsa wars, fights and hate were caused by lack of tactfulness when it comes to choice of words.
So for people who don't think my blue hair is nice, but has bothered to leave me a comment to let me know in a constructive (and kind lol) way, i thank you. You're awesome and i think you'd go far in life. Cox it's not WHAT, it's HOW.
These are just.. Stupid? It's mostly also rude but it's like mentally-challenged people who have no filter in their brains, uncontrollably typing words on their phone, making sound on the internet.
"Seriously blue?! Ugly!"
"Your hair sucks"
You get it? To me they are like animals, making weird unnecessary rude comments. And to me it just sounds like..
"Hey, i have so much free time, i am a rude fuck, nobody taught me manners, i like to spread hate, i love to insult people i don't know, i love most to hit my mother with a frying pan cox i fear nothing and i just love to spread negativity and even when doing all these, i stand up strongly for freedom of speech and i also feel that people on the internet all deserves to be flamed since they put themselves out there and on my profile i most usually either write things like IF YOU DON'T LIKE ME, FUCK OFF but no i ain't no fuckoffers and no i will not take my own advice and fuckoff or sometimes i also write things like I LOVE GOD AS GOD LOVES ME IN HIS GRACE I BELIEVE blablabla but no my god didn't teach me to miss up on a chance to call a whore a whore and a ugly blue hair freak a freak okay so NO NO NO BAHBAHBAH UGLY" Yup. This is what it sounds like to me =)
So i might sometimes block them if i can be bothered to but over time i've learnt to just ignore them.
And lastly.. The ones i hate most..
RUDE + TOTALLY-MEAN-IT COMMENTS
These are usually made by people who actually bother to filter their words and wanna say something about me BUT somehow also want to make it about themselves. And they are fucktards who think that "No offense but", "Not hating but", "Don't hate you but" actually means something.
Now and now i'd tell you, IT MEANS NOTHING AND IF IT MEANS ANYTHING, IT MEANS YOU SHOULD JUST SHUT UP AND NOT SAY ANYTHING IF YOU'RE AFRAID OF OFFENDING PEOPLE YET YOU DON'T KNOW HOW TO PUT YOUR IDEA ACROSS WITHOUT OFFENDING PEOPLE.
WELL THEN YOU'RE NOT FIT TO GIVE OPINIONS COX YOU CAN'T EVEN HANDLE AND FIGURE YOURSELF OUT. So best thing for you to do is? Shut up. Or unfollow me. Or kill yourself if you really think there's no way to avoid making yourself unhappy looking at my blue hair. Okay?
"I am sorry i am not trying to hate here but your blue hair looks really bad on you"
OH REALLY? You're sorry? WHY? You're not the one with blue hair are you? Then what are you sorry for? For leaving a comment that you don't have to, but still did so anyway???
SORRY NO COUNT THEN, FUCKER =)
"No offense but you look really old with this hair colour"
Okay. So will your mother if she had this blue on her hair. But hey hey, let's not drift too far from the topic. You were saying what, no offense? Okay. YOU HAVE AN OLD SMELLY CHEEBYE. No offense. What, you don't? Okay. But that's just what you think~ =D If what i think about my hair don't matter enough, then what you think about your cheebye doesn't affect what i feel about it too =D SMELLY CB SMELLY CB SMELLY CB! =D Oh wait, forgot the magic words~ NO OFFENSE~
"I don't hate you but you look really bad with this hair colour.."
SAVE THE FORMALITY OKAY.
I HATE YOU.
WE'RE DONE. Simple. You can hate me back it's okay =D I have a lot of love from people who decide to like me and like me anyway and they won't try to hurt me or they'd be careful of their words even when they have to break bad news to me so i'd just roll in the compliments and love from them all day long after i'm done with my piece for hypocrites like you guys.
And please, stop trying to make it about you.
"I really don't hate you", "I am not trying to hate"
WHO CARES ABOUT YOU AND YOUR INTENTIONS.
And yes we heard this many times, "EVERYONE IS ENTITLED TO THEIR OWN OPINIONS"
WELL IF IT'S YOUR OWN OPINION, KEEP IT TO YOURSELF. Especially is it's not something worthy to publish online. I mean seriously, i've NEVER posted a single hate / negative / rude comment to strangers on their profiles unless provoked.
I mean, we're not that close for me to tell you things that other people closer to you would have told you (like, you need to lose weight, like, why is your complexion so bad you need to do something, like, there's a booger at your nostril, like, there's vege stuck in your teeth, like, you have B.O). So i feel you guys should probably reevaluate how close you are to someone before you spit your mouth off trying to give your "two cents worth" or three dollar worth or anything lah okay.
Mich my BFF told me to go for Hair for Hope hahah. My sisters told me my hair is fugly. Josh ask me if i would consider dying it back to brown cox everyone say blue is ugly.
And i am perfectly fine with it cox.. 1) They are close to me 2) They are close to me so they can say whatever shit they want about me 2) They are close to me and they can say whatever shit they want about me and not have me react beyond "Shut up lah you, i like leh~" Hahaha. Okay. So all you who keep telling me no offense, you don't hate me and what not.. You are ALL not close to me. So.
Talking about two cents worth, that's also something i hate.
UNLESS it's accompanied with constructive (and not condescending) comments, then okay. But if it's something rude and thinking you know soooo much better than everyone else then i give you 5 cents you no need to change give me, just GTFO.
Omg omg another phrase i hate, from people who are usually saying things they don't have to say (usually negative things lah), but act like they just diedie have to and pretend like they wouldn't like to hurt anyone's feelings by saying things they know they shouldn't say..
"IN MY HONEST OPINION"
Or short-form IMHO.
AN OPINION IS AN OPINION. IT'S OPINIONATED, IT'S BASED ON PERSONAL JUDGEMENT. IT'S WITH A VARIABLE PERSPECTIVE, IT'S SUBJECTIVE.
So honest or not, it's still an opinion. So back to where we begin.. Hypocrites, if you can't deal with offending people, and you don't know how to string your words tactfully then i suggest you STFU.
Okay i'm done. If you read til here and still decided to like me and accept my blue hair.. Then TADANG~~~ PICTURES OF ME IN BLUE HAIR~ Hahah!
If you don't like me, i already ask you not to read this post from the start.
You 犯贱 i bohbian. Omg this is the best line ever for people who dislike me but still die die wanna follow me or read me. Lol. I am awesome.
And for the record, I LOVE MY BLUE HAIR.
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Went to let Sio do my blue hair finally~ After all the pestering.. He finally did it for me =DDD
And these are the random shots i got from my phone directly haha. If you noticed i got some aquamarine blue-green inside the blue =DDD
Like this can see? =DDD
Sio is quite ingenius. I don't know how he can make the subtle streaks of blue and darker blue. If you don't want a crazy colour like this you can still do a more subtle colour but with the same tecnique lah. It really adds texture to the hair!
My nose ❤
Went to AFA2013 to support Yutaki and Miyake with Sophie and Wendy and then we all went to catch a movie =DDD And then at the end of the day i have messy hair and worn out makeup but then i was looking at all the comments and i look at myself..
And i really really think damn hard and i still cannot figure it out.
UGLY MEH?!?!? I FIND DAMN CHIO LEH?
Lolol. Okay not chio in a chio way but just i like it cox it's weirdly good-looking for me? Haha. Okay it's okay, it's my personal opinion about my hair and my looks on my personal blog. So.. Oh wait, that makes it legit, I CAN PUT MY PERSONAL OPINION ABOUT MYSELF ON MY BLOG =D
And i kept asking Josh, "Why ah Darling, how come people these days like super no manners one. Wanna talk bad things about people do it at discretion lah! Why die die must let me know by commenting on MY picture? Huh? I got ask them meh"
"People are entitled to their own opinions mah"
"Okay. I ask you. Will you walk up to a fat lady and tell her in her face she is fat and she needs to lose weight and that you mean no offense?"
"No i won't.."
"Just block them lor"
And so i did =) If you said something mean / hypocritically mean, you are probably blocked.
Better i save you and your eyes now than i build up sooooo much anger in me that i have to go see a psychiatrist. Is there a doctor to help people like me who get cyber-bullied everyday? HAHAHA.
Kidding. I don't cyberbully people 好偷笑 already. Lolol. But say real one, most people who insulted me in one way or another all have locked up instagram profile =DDD
I am very very very happy to know that!!! =DDD Really!!!
1) I feel like i taught people valuable lessons in my blogpost about social media etiquette
2) Private profiles = i can't see your shit face and make shit comments about you with screenshots of you =DDD It's good!!! When i see your shitface after you make a shit comment about me, it feels like i am a cat being fed fish, i can't resist. But i'd prefer peace than war, if you'd believe me.
3) Private profile = Save me all the trouble of getting back at you. Awesome. Okay!
Say real one, 我觉得还不错 O.O Haha~
New profile picture. Hahahah.
Okay omg i feel so much better now. This is why everyone needs a proper blog ^.^V