I mean.. Have you seen kids these days?
8 year old on instagram calling out random girls "You're ugly. Lol"
11 year old on instagram commenting on pictures of girls "Disgusting eek"
13 year old on Twitter tweeting insults and mockery of people every now and then, and then screaming victim when she gets hurled out.
I ask you something very simple lah, logic, i am one person. How can i bully a big bunch of girls? 5 girls attacking me by leaving me nasty comments simultaneously on my instagram with their PUBLIC account. Given my past record of pointing out rude people, do you think i will let this rest?
And then later coming to taunt me on Twitter further. I am not saying i am a victim of cyberbullying, definitely not. Cox i refuse to be one. But how can the original cyberbullies have the cheeks to scream victims when i am merely telling them to stop? And if i tell them to stop and they don't stop, how is it wrong if i make them stop? Explain.
Don't tell me they are just 13, 11, 9, whatever, we've been through this too many times. THIS IS PRECISELY WHY!!! IF NOBODY IS TEACHING THEM, and if the shit gets to me, i handle it my way. Don't tell me to be a bigger person, for the umpteenth time, my goal in life is not to be a bigger person. My stand is to speak for the things i believe in.
If a taxi driver is rude to me and calls me "whore" i make sure he lose his job.
If a meepok stall auntie tells me i have bad fashion sense and she constantly talk shit about me, i will plant cockroaches at her stalls if i have the chance to.
If someone did all these shit to you, anyone, you do the same back. They call it fight fire with fire.. And they think it's stupid. But i guess in the end, it's about who has a better stand and who puts up a better fight with better reasoning. I sum it up for you with this quote:
"If you prick us, do we not bleed?
If you tickle us, do we not laugh?
If you poison us, do we not die?
And if you wrong us, shall we not revenge?
The villainy you teach me, I will execute, and it shall go hard but I will better the instruction"
No point telling me Hollywood stars / superstars don't do shit like i do i.e hurling people out for insulting me. NEWSFLASH, i am freaking blogger! And there must be good reasons why.
I just don't understand. My gf who is an ex-teacher tell me that schools take cyberbullying very seriously. I am not sure if they have been creating awareness to prevent and protect their pupils from getting cyberbullied OR are they more worried about their kids cyberbullying others.
Becox i sure think that they need to prevent their kids from cyberbullying others, more. Honestly i don't feel bullied even though sometimes like today, a bunch of girls can attack me altogether. I feel more strongly about letting them know some tips to talk shit about people online.
讲好听一点 i call it Social media etiquette. How come the schools never teach their students this leh? If you wanna insult someone (especially one who is known for having no tolerance for rudeness), make sure you private your account so he/ she will never see it.
And also teach them that when you get confronted with the things you say, just lay low. Asking all your friends to speak up for you / throw expletives at that person / calling her bitch and spam comments on her social media platforms are all bad ideas cox now you're getting your friends into trouble too.
However you all can still private your accounts and continue talking shit about said person.
What's so difficult?!
I say many times already, it's okay to talk shit about people. Just make sure you have nothing to lose / nothing to be afraid of if you choose to do it publicly.
And if someone (like me) say they are going to go talk to your principal, they really might.
Becox this is how strongly i feel about matters like this. Generally just about how rude kids can get. I cannot tolerate. If you follow my tweets you already know, yesterday when i walk past my block, 3 young boys were at the void deck and the older one (about 13 yro max) said loudly to the younger boy "Eh why! See pretty girl you shy ah?!"
And then the younger boy (about 9 yro?) shout back..
"C***BYE LAH YOU! SHE ALSO DON'T HAVE NEH NEH POK!"
I was like =OOOOOOOOOOO =_______="
So i start to think.. What happened to kids these days. Are they still listening to their teachers? Or their parents at least?
Or are the teachers more afraid of the students and the students' parents nowadays. Like cannot scold, cannot beat, cannot make to stay back for recess, cannot punish with standing, cannot do detention.
If not all will kena complained by the parents and the students.
HOW THE HELL YOU TEACH A KID FROM RIGHT AND WRONG THEN?!?!
You explain? What if he / she just don't listen?!
You explain some more?! What if he / she die also won't listen?
BEAT THE CRAP OUT OF THEM. Really. Just do it. They might hate you for a while, a long while even, but at least they won't do that something again. Or at least the thought of the consequences will help deter them from doing it again. Okay i don't really mean beat them till half dead, i mean show them the consequences!!! If you do something bad like this, you get this, it's just reasonable.
That is why i say i might not want kids of my own anymore!!! I mean i LOVE babies.. But i am not sure if i can handle it if i find out my 13 year old girl is talking like she owns the world on Twitter / Instagram. And thinking that she is the boss of everyone. And when confronted, acts like a timid victimised tiny mouse. What kind of character-building is this!
Everyone keep saying, "Everyone is entitled to their opinion" Well then who's the boss?
Of course though, everyone CAN have opinions. I have an opinion too and that is, if you want to have an opinion, stick with it and stand by it. Don't back down don't back out. Stand strong even if i bring my face in yours and question you about your opinion.
"QIUQIU TASTE IN FASHION SUCKS SIA"
"NO OFFENSE BUT QIUQIU IS SO STUPID"
"SORRY BUT QIUQIU IS STILL UGLY AFTER PLASTIC SURGERY"
Okay. If you think these are good neccesary opinions that you die-die-have-to share with the world on a public platform, then stick with it. Don't delete your account, don't private it as i tell you to. Don't budge. Don't get intimidated by me. I mean what could i possibly do right? I can only throw bitch-fits haha. I am just one out of a million bloggers out there, no biggie, really.
What can i possibly do? If you think your opinion was so strong and correct and informative, keep it there for everyone to see! =D KEEP IT THERE UNTIL I SHOW IT TO YOUR PRINCIPAL AND TEACHERS *RAGE FACE* So i don't have to keep so many screenshots lolol.
When i asked nicely for one of the girls to stop tweeting all those stuff she tweeted "Ooooh i am sooo scared LOL" =_= Well you damn sure don't have to be, at least not yet ; )
Seriously. How can anyone be so fearless and audacious to tweet / instagram all the expletives and nasty abusive remarks and leave their profile and pictures public for all to see.
Pictures of them in their uniforms. Pretty good school image-building there! =_="
I don't know but i think some schools have to thank me for helping them discipline their students. I mean if the teachers can't do it for fear of kena-ing complaint, and the parents don't know what their kids are doing on social media these days, i'd do the job =DDD I'd gladly volunteer!
Better i tell the student off and he / she go inform everyone to beware of this mega bitch QiuQiu than someone seeing pictures of them in uniform tweeting all the vulgarities towards anyone (even their teachers), and then go to the press and then have the school's reputation dip. Right?
=D Yeah I am helpful like that!
I know some of you don't agree with me on my way of handling.. Shaming the shameless. It's a tough thing to do but i won't give up one! It doesn't matter how old they are.. If they want a piece of me, they make sure i don't get a piece of them in the process. Cox i will bite on till the end.
And it's okay if you think you lose respect for me, or if you think you realise i am not the sweet QiuQiu you know anymore cox
1) I too, don't repsect people who think i should suck it up to all the insults like it's a default
2) I am never just sweet QiuQiu i mean how long have you been reading my blog, you new here?
Okay i'd sign off with a few tips on social media etiquette especially for students:
- Private your account if you really need to rant sooooo much about people who might see your tweets. Not just me, a lot of bloggers search for their names too and they might or might not get back at your insults but trust me, don't take the risk! =D
- Don't get your friends into trouble just becox you can't get out of it yet. You can get out of it if you just wise up a little, let it go cox if you can start it, you can end it. If not people like me will end it for you and i'm not sure if that's what you'd want. And if you get your friends involved, sometimes they get even more worked up than you and by the time you want out, they are still in it for you.
- Don't taunt people like me. I don't take it very well. And don't bother telling me i need to take it if i want to be a public person. Really? Then tell the same thing to people who wanna insult me on a public platform =) Everyone decides and pay for their actions =)
- Best is if you don't plaster your uniforms everywhere on the social media. I mean it's not like you're constantly doing things your school will be proud of, are you? Hahaha.
Alright~ I hope we're all clear about my stand in this matter! If you're nice, i'd be nicer back! If you're nasty, i'd show you what nasty really is *rage face*