12 February 2013

Learning how to take insults is bullshit

It started like this.

So that picture i posted of Cheesie and myself, probably got on to the popular page and sometimes it gets REALLY irritating becox most followers/ readers of mine, that are from Singapore / Malaysia (some very nice ones are from Australia / UK, i know haha) are very nice and encouraging and supportive and i am very thankful for that. Thank you for keeping blogging fun for me =')

BUT. When a picture get onto popular page it become exposed to a whole lot more people viewing it and yes it means a lot more people see your nice picture lah and most of them leave really nice (although short lol) comments which is really good but the down side is..

There are always some cunts (pardon my language i am not in the best of mood, as you can see from my Twitter today already lol) who go around "Eww you're ugly", "You look like *insert poop emoticon*", "Whore", "Yucks", "You should die, ew" things like that.

And if i happen to see it + i have time on hand, i'd bother to go to their account and purposely leave them nice comments, and sometimes nice but obviously sacasrtic comments lol. But it's not to hurt them, it's just to tell them, "YOU THINK YOU CAN GET AWAY, YOU CAN'T" and that the people they leave rude comments for, are human too. I mean, unless of course the account belongs to a cat.

Or a bunny for that matter. Lolol. Or a dog. But these fluffies don't get mean comment, i suppose. Maybe their owners do. Haha. BUT. Back to leaving rude comments, DO YOU THINK IT'S OKAY to leave people rude and abusive remarks like that?! "Whore"?! Seriously?!

And the worst thing i realise, it's not just the dudes doing it.. Some women does it too. What happen to sistahood yo?! Lol. I remember one time i posted a picture of mahjong tiles, TILE ONLY AH, don't even have my face, the heck, don't even have my finger!!! A white lady commented "Whore".

Lolololol. How i become whore with mahjong tiles. I pop them out of my vagina like tiger show is it.

Even if i did, that would be a skill i mastered to make money as a performer. It doesn't make me whore. In any case, you just don't go around calling people whore on a platform that gets to them.

So i left Daniel (@dimpoalive) a few nice comments on his pictures (of course i don't mean it lol but hey hey, if you keep telling yourself to say nice things, you tend to do nice things which in turn will slowly make you into a nicer person, we all gotta start somewhere!) and some of it he deleted becox after praising him, i asked him why did he scold me and Cheesie "Ugly bitches" when he doesn't look like a unkind person. So he deleted all of those.

And then subsequently, after i brought this to Twitter, he deleted his "ugly bitches" comment on my instagram picture. What does it mean? It means he knows it's not right to do it right?

SO?

FUCKING APOLOGISE.

But no. He got pissed that i brought it to Twitter and tagged his friend, we roll it out on Twitter.

Since his tweet to me was so hostile, ALRIGHT BRING IT BABEH. And please take a look at how his replies are to people who tweet him to tell him off. Whole day talk about his mexican dick =_=" Weak.

My followers wouldn't miss a thing =D of course! And i did invite everyone to take this as a time-killer cum frustration rubbish bin lolol. And if they choose to engage they are strong enough to speak for themselves so it's not to fend me, but to vent on a rubbish bin if they want.

Becox to be honest, even i wasn't pissed. I was just doing this out of leisure to kill time + am in the midst of my mission to tell every rude people it is NOT okay to be rude like that to people, and that there is a price to pay. Similarly, I've done this many times, i will do it again.

And i will keep doing it as every rude person comes up. So here's a good suggestion, if you want to be rude online, you better cover your ass well, make your profile private. Becox given time, with the right mood, people like me can dig out every shit we want to.

I know some of you might go "Why is she making such a big fuss.. It's just a comment" To you, it's one comment. It's nothing personal, right? OF COURSE, THAT'S BECOX IT'S NOT DIRECTED AT YOU, YOU SAY EASY LAH *rolleyes*

And it's okay to think that way becox you're not me and i don't expect you to understand what i experience and how i handle, it's fine. But you don't get to stand high up there and look at me like i'm some petty failure just becox i refuse to suck it up to rude comments..

Like Little Miss C here did. Btw, Dimpoalive is not a "poor guy" he is basking in the attack asking every girl to suck his mexican dick and to serve him noodles.

 Of course not everyone is going to like me, i got that registered in my head long time ago.

BUT NOBODY CAN BE RUDE TO ME, i mean, they can, BUT I CAN CHOOSE TO NOT TO SUCK IT UP.

Little Miss C tweets like she makes a lot of sense. I saw this becox she tweeted (as boxed up in red in screenshot above) @CarlxPhoto and who is CarlxPhoto.. A friend of Daniel (@dimpoalive)..

This is CarlxPhoto for you =) Daniel's friend, going "Small titties ho's", "stfu you ugly bitch go  get a dick pump", "go make some booboo ass porn" on me and others. Hahahah what???

And if you saw Little Miss C's tweet to him, she suddenly decided she wants to be diplomats of all Asians, "Plz don't think that all Asians are like her, it's just her" It's just me?!?!?

What have i done that was sooooo wrong, and even if i did, HOW CAN IT BE WORST THAN THEM that you have to clear it up that i am the disgrace here? Their insults are more your cup of tea is it? Hahaha you're hilarious.

Little Miss C, did you not see that them, and their bunch of friends, are taking the fight to a never-before racist level and i REFUSE to get there? They keep calling us ching chongs, ask us to stfu and go make them noodles, and go pump their mexican dicks and to make them orange peel chicken etc.. And keep joking about getting ready for Asian Invasion.

YOU think you damn noble had to do all Asians a favour by telling them I AM THE ONLY RUDE ASIANS and that not all Asians are like this?!

OF COURSE NOT ALL ASIANS ARE LIKE THIS.

Cox there is only one me who will speak for me.

And on my end, the thought that Mexicans all want their cocks to be sucked on, didn't occur to me. It also didn't cross my mind that Mexicans are all inked and booze all day long and only know how to be rude and use abusive language on ladies just becox this bunch did. BUT YOU chose to bring this to a "racist" level with them. It has never been a mexicans against Asian thing.
Let me bring you back to what you were harping on initially. That i should learn how to take an insult, right? And that not everyone is going to tell me what i want to hear. And that "Ugly Bitches" was just a bloody opinion and that i should learn to take it.

Okay i'd heed your advice and keep learning ^.^V

Your turn, Miss C,
(picture of Miss C Removed becox she emailed me to apologise and have since removed her tweets NOT becox of what you guys think and commented, you guys are missing the point and are being very silly. Age and my survival in this society has nothing to do with this)
Do you know that your nose is humongous? And that you should probably close your mouth more especially when you take pictures becox it's not flattering when you open your mouth like that cox it stretches your nose even wider. And don't pout cox it makes you look bad and the nose even bigger.

How does it feel?

I haven't even input any effort into making it sound anything more than factual.

HOW DOES IT FEEL LAH I ASK YOU?

NOT TOO EASY RIGHT? But it's okay, we'd all learn together! =D Jiayou! Wo men ke yi de!

And i saw Litte Miss C retweeted her friend..
I wouldn't have been so irritated if you didn't tell your friend that YOU THINK she doesn't have to be nice to me. Since when being nice was bad? Since you decided to be Diplomat for Asians failed?

So don't tell me i should learn how to take an insult. Becox i will take constructive comments, but insults that are groundless and mean, why should i take it? I take it by ignoring it if i want to, becox that's my choice but the default decision shouldnt be to take it just becox you think it is.

If any of you wanna say i am being a bully then you're really missing the whole point.

Point is..

We are all human. Given. What you feel, i feel. What you expect of me, i can expect of you too. So if you expect me to take an insult easily and suck it up like a man, then you show me you can do it =)

And, the most basic thing.. A man just doesn't go up to a girl and call her "Whore", "Ugly bitch", "Bitch, bitch bitch, suck my dick" It is not right. We have to change this in our own ways.

And this is my way. Don't get in my way.

And i'd be nice on most days as usual.

171 comments:

Catrina said...

this post gave me cancer

Anonymous said...

Woah this is so low of you

Elza Wong said...

So funny leh. Some people are really just so dumb. I don't understand why they insist on defending the people that are making derogatory comments. After all she's a girl and as a girl won't she understand that it's never nice to be called a whore, slut some more. Sorry that you have to go through this hopefully these kids will learn to grow up and not think they know what's right and good just because they're a teen.

Anyways, I actually wanted to ask if Cleo can make appointments months in advance? I'm going to Singapore for a conference in June and would love to have my hair done by them (I haven't done anything to my hair for a year, really picky with ppl doing my hair but I always love the way your hair looks) hopefully can squeeze in a visit with them then! And hopefully they won't be busy at that time. Thanks! Btw, really love reading your blog and I definitely do not think you look like a bitch :)

Anonymous said...

Qiu honestly I have a neutral stand on this, but imo I don't think it's very nice of you to put up her pictures up and insult her looks like that. She's only 14 and you're what? 25?
I understand you want her to have a taste of her own medicine but I definitely do not think that this is the way

Anonymous said...

miss C is prettier than you

Anonymous said...

She's only a kid, what's wrong with you?

Anonymous said...

She's only a kid, what's wrong with you?

Anonymous said...

Why would you do that? Can't you take criticism? You don't have to please everyone ok. This is really a new low for you.

Anonymous said...

Why would you do that? Can't you take criticism? You don't have to please everyone ok. This is really a new low for you.

Anonymous said...

This is honestly not the way to address the whole dealing with insult issue. you are proving to be no better than those who cyber-bully others(which are the targeted audience for this blog post)

Qiuting said...

Elza, yes they do take early appointment! You can call them to book ah ^.^ +065 6338 5250

Guys, why? You guys saw "Talk about mature" that's what C said! =D she is very matured i am sure she can handle it. It is just an opinion, RIGHT?

Anonymous said...

you are such a slut. if you can't take insults then don't be a blogger? i hated you since URTO and that's a reason why you lost the votes so badly. you should thank xx for who you are today but at the end of the day, you are just her dog. "go fetch the bone puppy!"

Anonymous said...

This is honestly not the way to address the whole dealing with insult issue. you are proving to be no better than those who cyber-bully others(which are the targeted audience for this blog post)

Anonymous said...

It's her free stand. If she does apologize, then let it go. She's just a KID.

Anonymous said...

People keep saying you're low, because you posted the pictures of the little girl, but won't see the reason why you actually did that (hey guys. reading isn't that difficult). I also don't support that you posted her pictures, but I can see the point why you did and I won't judge you, since it was your decision.

Just because we're sitting behind computers or our smartphones doesn't mean we can do or say everything we want. You already said it: There's always another person on the other end and he/she has got feelings. It never feels good to get insults, especially w/o any reasons, so I don't really understand why people think it's so funny to do this.
And I esp don't understand why they being so butthurt, when you tell them off. Like it wasn't a big deal and I'm totally agreeing with you saying that people see it as a small thing, because they weren't the ones getting offended. It's always easy to say it isn't a bad thing, when someone wasn't involved.

Don't let other make you down! In my opinion, everyone shouldn't just ignore such insults, 'cause if we do people keep thinking they can say whatever they want!

Anonymous said...

"Why would you do that? Can't you take criticism? You don't have to please everyone ok. This is really a new low for you."

LOL criticism? Didn't knew "bitch" and "whore" were something called constructive criticism.

Anonymous said...

You so free, can stalk the girl until what!

Anonymous said...

First of all, she didn't even mention you in the tweet, why you so kpo stalk her until like that huh? You purposely only sia...

Anonymous said...

Really immature of you, she's just a young girl, teens do impulsive things all the time, don't tell me you never did impulsive things as a teen? what makes you different from her?

Anonymous said...

First of all, she didn't even mention you in the tweet, why you so kpo stalk her until like that huh? You purposely only sia...

Anonymous said...

She's not "just a kid". While I agree that Qiuqiu could have dealt with it in a different manner (her choice, really because it's bloody frustrating to deal with people who have nothing better to do than to suggest that mahjong tiles have sex with multiple partners), I don't agree that Miss C is "just a kid" and that she should be let off for her bad behaviour.

She has outgrown her childhood years for SURE. She should have enough brains, enough shame, enough tact and enough respect as a human being (especially being Chinese where respect for your elders is drilled into you from young) to either choose to shut up or be nice about things.

I have never attacked anybody in my life and I was once "just a kid". I wasn't mean at 10 and I'm still not mean at 18. Some say I am because I am blunt/honest but that's just it. I am honest, not an attacker.

Miss C was directly attacking somebody. Even if she is younger than Qiu, it's cyber bullying. Don't look at a 14 year old as an "innocent kid", really. They are less innocent than you think. They might still have their "V-cards" but penetration may be the only thing they haven't done. Everything else might have been checked off the list.

And a rude mouth, or fingers in this case, definitely doesn't deserve any defending from people out there.

Anonymous said...

there you go, more criticisms for yourself.

Anonymous said...

You don't like people cyber bullying you, yet here you are doing the exact same thing to them? What makes you so different from them huh?

Anonymous said...

YOU CAN'T PLEASE EVERYONE WHAT'S WRONG WITH YOU

Anonymous said...

LEARNING HOW TO TAKE INSULTS IS BULLSHIT,please if you can't do this, how will you survive in life huh?

Anonymous said...

Oh, shut up & be nice about things just cause she's younger than qiu? IT'S YOUR OWN BLOODY OPINION MAN.

Anonymous said...

And miss C is just being honest abt her opinion as well.

Anonymous said...

Not everyone will think your pretty or whatever, everybody has their own opinion. it's not other people's fault that you have low self esteem & can't suck it up.

Anonymous said...

IF YOU CAN'T SUCK IT UP, HOW WILL YOU SURVIVE IN LIFE? Pure stupidity frankly speaking...

Anonymous said...

omg you just jealous miss c more chio than you right hahahaha?

C said...

Miss C here. I've already apologised to Qiu Qiu and am waiting for her reply. It's my fault for being nosey and i apologise. Really hope you guys stop slamming her because she's a victim too. :)

Anonymous said...

SUCK IT UP LIKE A SPONGE, DUDE. You act as if the whole world revolves around you. you aren't the prettiest girl in the world, please chill.

Anonymous said...

what's wrong with you seriously? so what if she wants to say her own opinion? she never said you were a bitch or anything.

Anonymous said...

it's not your fault, C. you should have the right to state your own opinions.

Lois Chan said...
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Lois Chan said...

YOU GO GIRL

Anonymous said...

so what if she got fat nose? at least she not airport runway right

Anonymous said...

YOU FUCKER DON'T KNOW HOW TO APOLOGISE YOU FUCK

C said...

Thanks for removing the pic, and guys really if y'all slam her you guys are being bullies too. So let's end it here please? Thanks Qiu Qiu. :)

Lois Chan said...

Haiya all these kids go on internet and talk big. If Qiu dont teach them manners who will? Their ma and pa also heck care them liao. You come out in the world need to learn MANNERS regardless of skin colour and what nots. FYL

Anonymous said...

YOU BITCH SIA, LETTING A POOR GIRL SUFFER LIKE THAT. FUCK YOU & BUDGET BARBIE

Anonymous said...

I actually looked up to you, lost all my respect for you now. thanks.

Anonymous said...

just jealous all your blogger friends are prettier than you & all.

Anonymous said...

everybody who said 'this is low of you','they're just kids' need to shut up. They're probably not a famous blogger, and not taking in destructive criticsm every single day. they don't know how it feels!
They're 14, so what? At the age of 14, no brains to think what's right and what's wrong, is that it?
If everybody lets them continuing saying nasty shit about others, they're never going to learn! They need to know that shaming others is NOT right, and they should learn it now regardless of their age.

Anonymous said...

BE A MAN & LEARN HOW TO SUCK UP YOUR FREAKING TEARS. NO ONE CARES.

Anonymous said...

YOU AREN'T THE ONLY VICTIM HERE. PLEASE MAINTAIN.

Anonymous said...

just saw your tweet, seriously? you are way too proud, too unlikable already.

Anonymous said...

someone please cancel budget barbie, we don't need a bitch hosting the show.

Anonymous said...

qiu herself has no morals, so who is she to teach the people what is right from wrong huh?

Anonymous said...

i dont like qiuqiu.

Catalina said...

Please la, don't tell me that when you were 14, you were a perfect daughter/son or person. The girl was obviously young & made a mistake. Didn't you make mistakes when you were her age too? What makes miss c any different? In this day and age, cyber bullying is happening all over. Becoming a blogger means you are set for this. From your post, Qiu, i have nothing to say. You will obviously have haters, not everyone will like you. Please, don't single them out. There's no point ok!

Anonymous said...

SMH at some of the comments. It's sad how some people don't find anything wrong with people calling others "whore" or "slut" for no particular reason. Maybe it's cus they are not the ones getting picked on, so they don't feel anything. If these insults were directed at them, I wonder how ~well~ they'd be able to handle them. Talk is cheap.

Anonymous said...

I guess majority of the commentors here are missing the point. What has age gotta do with maturity? Why is it so wrong for Qiu to stand up for herself when strangers were insulting her? And also, it was none of the "kid's" problem in the first place. If she had an issue with Qiu, she should have dealt with it WITHOUT waiting for someone to insult Qiu first, and then add oil to the fire.

Being called a slut/ whore/ hoe- I bet no female will sit still when being called one. Oh wait. Aint' just the females. Males use their fists when dealing with insults and so, we females should stfu and sit th f* down? Come ya'll. Qiu ain't asking ya'll to defend her, whatsoever. She's telling us to stand up for ourselves (if ya'll have a dificulty with reading). What's so bad bout that? Sure, cyber bullying may seem like a small thing in Singapore but no one should underestimate it.

PS: I won't be at all surprised at all if I get criticised as well.

Anonymous said...

I actually do agree on what she said about us all being humans. After all we all do have feelings, as we are looking after the feelings of that 14 year old girl, we must not fail to realize that qiuqiu is still a human and that she has feelings, that we too have to more sensitive towards what we say. That young girl feels the criticism but that is only maybe 5% of what qiu qiu faces on a daily basis. So why are you only defending that small girl regarding this matter?

Anonymous said...

I say that c definitely deserved what she got from qiu. And qiu has morals and is not low because she blogs about this. She is merely teaching those rude people a lesson. So what if c is just a kid? Did she have to think she's so great to be the diplomat for asians? Somemore she 'didnt think' her friend should have been 'nice about it' to qiu. What the fuck is this? You want to be a diplomat for asians saying how not all asians are like that but you yourself show yourself to be low enough to ask your friend not to be nice. Also i think c wants some mexican dick since she kept sucking up to dimpoalive and his friend. You people say qiu is low, i dont think so. Dont use the excuse c is just a kid because kids nowadays are different. So, if you all had qiu's popularity, i'm sure you all would do the same as her if any rude cunt called you a whore even if you posted a picture of only mahjong tiles.

Anonymous said...

Wow telling Qiuqiu to be cool when being called bitches/whores? If Qiuqiu rage, she is making mountain out of mole hill? You guys really have a big heart in being called that way! lol...Now I know only bitches/whores/bastards/assholes would not mind being called that way. But too bad Qiuqiu is a decent and respectful person of cos she would rage if being called this way. And those busybodies don't console her its ok, but why add oil to fire to make her flare up & make things worst? Young and ignorant is not a valid excuse...if not there won't be a place call Girls' Home!

Mel said...

I totally feel you on this. People are so mean and rude nowadays it's sad. and Qiuqiu, even though I don't know you personally, but from reading your blog you're like one the nicest, sweetest and most positive person. I don't understand how some people can say such mean and dumb things.

Anonymous said...

Hey qiuqiu, I am totally in support of u... And you are really standing up for yrself! You go girl! Anyway to all users, cyber bullying can constitute a criminal act too. Please think before posting!

Elza Wong said...

I still don't understand why people are blaming quiqiu for this. She just voiced her opinions and frustrations. Isn't everyone entitled to do that? Does she not have the right to stand up for herself if someone calls her a slut/whore then go after her and say go back to Japan some more. C'mon what type of person would be upset for a blogger to publicly stand up for herself and yes retaliate the people that critized her. If this was happening in a face to face situation would we not have supported her for standing up for herself after someone who does not know her calls her names essentially bullying her? But since it's in an online forum she has to suck it up and just roll with the punches. As for the kid remark if this girl is a teenager should she not be taught not to go around making these comments about someone else she doesn't know? I mean yeah we're not her parents but her parents may not know she's going around hurting people online then where does this stop. People find it so easy to judge, and I'm not saying in a perfect person who doesn't but if someone writes in a online forum one bad thing about me I will stalk the shit out of that person to see if they've said anymore bad things about me. If someone says something bad about you, would you not want to know what else they've said about you??

I apologize if this is long winded but I don't take these things lightly. I've had my own personal experiences where I've been called nasty things for no good reason. And I've always wished I had the courage to call the people out like qiuqiu did. Therefore, people should stop telling her that she was wrong to do this because she's just voicing her opinions, is this not what we go read blogs to do?

Anonymous said...

go qui qui!!

Elza Wong said...

Btw thanks for the info regarding Cleo! Definitely be giving them a call to schedule an appointment once I get the final conference schedule! Looking forward to it so much! :)

Maho said...

Woah, I understand that you might feel quite furious bc no one has the right to insult you like this. It's okay to criticize kinda "I don't like your make-up etc" but calling you names and a bitch is really dull. I can't stand those ppl, why they always so mean + use this ridiculous ghetto slang? Lol. However it was just a comment and there will be hater everywhere. Once you're famous you'll be hated and loved (and you ARE famous in blogosphere). You should be above that thing; if they're stupid like this they'll bear the consequences sooner or later. Of course nobody can ignore haters and if you're in rage you want to show everyone the dumbass. But hey they're still young and they possibly don't watch their mouth so it's a bit bad of you also publishing pictures & names of them. Publish exposure might help yourself to be satisfied but it's not even better than their actions. Show your pride and talk privately with them. Behind those loudmouths are nothing more than air.

Fighting, QiuQiu! ^_^

[ow anonymous comments so laughable sometimes]

Anonymous said...

QQ, if people say something bad about you and judge you as if they know you well. Don't get upset ok? You must remember "DOGS" barks when they don't know the person. Cheer up QQ!

Mr Lonely said...

well, just don't care it can liao loh~

Shmuberry said...

To everyone saying "she's only a kid"

the internet is not a place for kids. If teenagers are going to be around twitter and Facebook attacking people, acting all high and mighty, they'll get the same backlash an adult will get.

I'm with you, QiuQiu :)

Anonymous said...

Grow up, stop fighting with kids. That's just all your insecurities acting up. Be confident of who you really are, just ignore. You're being really immature by doing all these, get a life and show your haters that no matter what, they're never going to get you down. Live your life as if they are transparent, trust me, that's no other way of revenge that's better than this. Good luck

Jo said...

Wah. Suddenly everyone here became so noble? So many criticising her about bullying another? Heres a word of advice to the many justice baos above, if someone randomly goes up to you and calls you a whore or small dickface, remember to say THANK YOU AND BUY THAT PERSON A MEAL HOR!

REALLY, just fuck off. When you are the ones getting the shit, then you'll know its fucked up. If not, dont act like you have a heart as big as the united states or even china when its not even the size of your fucking toes.

Qiuqiu, do what you deem fit and dont let these asswipes think they can get away with insulting people! Wooohoooo! ;)

Anonymous said...

Everyone keeps saying "Oh, she's a kid, a KID" like that's some sort of excuse to be a terrible person. If anything, society should be harder on children and teach them before they grow up to be horrible adults. It's this sort of mentality, this idea that children are inherently pure and that they shouldn't be held accountable for their actions because they have no idea what they're talking about or whatever that is the real insult to the "poor children." I'd be more insulted, as a 14yo, to be told that my views and opinions and life choices mean nothing and aren't to be taken seriously because I'm just a kid than to be told I have a big nose. BTW, 14 is not a "child." You are old enough to know better, and at any age you are young enough to make an honest mistake. However, this Miss C, even after supposedly apologizing via email to QQ, then went on to fraternize with the racist Twit-heads. She wasn't sorry, and this wasn't just the honest mistake of a 14yo "child."

Anonymous said...

*claps* Keep it up. The rest can "suck it" if they think this is low.

MSK said...

Seriously I can't understand why people chose to remain anonymous when they opted to leave a comment. If you have the guts to mention it, put your name down.

Firstly, I don't think Qiu Qiu is at fault for exposing that C's picture. The fact is irregardless of age, as long as that person in question chooses and decides to make a remark about another person, and THAT remark is baseless without any substance or fact, that person knowingly will be open to a reaction from the other person. Whether the degree of reaction is overwhelming strong or not, is really entitled to the other person who was being remarked in the first place. In the digital sphere, there is no ground to say that because you are young hence you can resort to cyber-bullying. Yes, what C did to Qiu Qiu was considered Cyber-bullying. Every action there is always a reaction, hence C got her just reaction. No excuse for Cyber-Bullies just because they are young. Being young is an invalid reason for Cyber-Bulling.

And for that Daniel guy who is supposedly a Mexican, if calling people whore or ugly bitches is alright to him. How about if I call his mom a whore and ugly bitch?? The irony, however is I don't know his mom in person nor character. Just like he doesn't know Qiu Qiu in person nor character. Point is he is truly shallow and hollow, both in his IQ and EQ.

I will always support you Qiu Qiu. What you did is 100% understandable and justifiable.

Cheers!
MSK

Anonymous said...

After you've explained clearly in your post, so many idiots still miss the point. Hai... These people ah, 'kiang dio ho, mai gei kiang'. Let those who wants to act self righteous continue their 'act'. You go girl!!! We should stand up to those losers who have no manners and respect for others!!

Littleplate said...

Anonymous said...
IF YOU CAN'T SUCK IT UP, HOW WILL YOU SURVIVE IN LIFE? Pure stupidity frankly speaking... **<--- As evidenced by QQ's immense popularity right now? Would you not call that survival?**

February 12, 2013 at 9:13 PM
Anonymous said...
omg you just jealous miss c more chio than you right hahahaha? **<---- Must be female. Why comment something we hear everyday in primary school?**

February 12, 2013 at 9:15 PM

Anonymous said...
BE A MAN & LEARN HOW TO SUCK UP YOUR FREAKING TEARS. NO ONE CARES. **<----- Obviously has some sort of eye deformity as could not even differentiate between genders. Might have been why this person has so much repressed anger, all their life they were bullied for looking retarded :)**

February 12, 2013 at 9:28 PM
Anonymous said...
YOU AREN'T THE ONLY VICTIM HERE. PLEASE MAINTAIN. **<--- Cannot stop laughing. Maintain what?!*

February 12, 2013 at 9:28 PM
Anonymous said...
just saw your tweet, seriously? you are way too proud, too unlikable already. *<--- So proud that she opens up about her life, her worries and her everyday struggles? Aren't you projecting your own issues on to her? Over the internet nonetheless.*

February 12, 2013 at 9:29 PM


....Obviously they were so proud of their identity they did not even have 'the balls' to use their real names. Who are the unlikeable, voiceless bully right now? QQ, faceless bullies aren't even worth your time and worry!

Littleplate said...

Anonymous said...
IF YOU CAN'T SUCK IT UP, HOW WILL YOU SURVIVE IN LIFE? Pure stupidity frankly speaking... **<--- As evidenced by QQ's immense popularity right now? Would you not call that survival?**

February 12, 2013 at 9:13 PM
Anonymous said...
omg you just jealous miss c more chio than you right hahahaha? **<---- Must be female. Why comment something we hear everyday in primary school?**

February 12, 2013 at 9:15 PM

Anonymous said...
BE A MAN & LEARN HOW TO SUCK UP YOUR FREAKING TEARS. NO ONE CARES. **<----- Obviously has some sort of eye deformity as could not even differentiate between genders. Might have been why this person has so much repressed anger, all their life they were bullied for looking retarded :)**

February 12, 2013 at 9:28 PM
Anonymous said...
YOU AREN'T THE ONLY VICTIM HERE. PLEASE MAINTAIN. **<--- Cannot stop laughing. Maintain what?!*

February 12, 2013 at 9:28 PM
Anonymous said...
just saw your tweet, seriously? you are way too proud, too unlikable already. *<--- So proud that she opens up about her life, her worries and her everyday struggles? Aren't you projecting your own issues on to her? Over the internet nonetheless.*

February 12, 2013 at 9:29 PM


....Obviously they were so proud of their identity they did not even have 'the balls' to use their real names. Who are the unlikeable, voiceless bully right now? QQ, faceless bullies aren't even worth your time and worry!

Littleplate said...

Anonymous said...
IF YOU CAN'T SUCK IT UP, HOW WILL YOU SURVIVE IN LIFE? Pure stupidity frankly speaking... **<--- As evidenced by QQ's immense popularity right now? Would you not call that survival?**

February 12, 2013 at 9:13 PM
Anonymous said...
omg you just jealous miss c more chio than you right hahahaha? **<---- Must be female. Why comment something we hear everyday in primary school?**

February 12, 2013 at 9:15 PM

Anonymous said...
BE A MAN & LEARN HOW TO SUCK UP YOUR FREAKING TEARS. NO ONE CARES. **<----- Obviously has some sort of eye deformity as could not even differentiate between genders. Might have been why this person has so much repressed anger, all their life they were bullied for looking retarded :)**

February 12, 2013 at 9:28 PM
Anonymous said...
YOU AREN'T THE ONLY VICTIM HERE. PLEASE MAINTAIN. **<--- Cannot stop laughing. Maintain what?!**

February 12, 2013 at 9:28 PM
Anonymous said...
just saw your tweet, seriously? you are way too proud, too unlikable already. **<--- So proud that she opens up about her life, her worries and her everyday struggles? Aren't you projecting your own issues on to her? Over the internet nonetheless.**

February 12, 2013 at 9:29 PM


....Obviously they were so proud of their identity they did not even have 'the balls' to use their real names. Who are the unlikeable, voiceless bully right now? QQ, faceless bullies aren't even worth your time and worry!

Anonymous said...

I totally support you QQ! I think that you were right to put the spotlight on people who were cyber bullying you. I wonder if some people who disagreed with this post are worried about also being exposed for similar behavior?

Keep your head up, and keep blogging!

Reader since '10 from the US!

Anonymous said...

can't take insults? don't seek for fame.

Anonymous said...

I agree with the point of this post.

There are always "knights" defending these derogatory remarks. "I have an Asian friend, and he/she isn't offended." or "I'm Asian , and I'm not offended." These individuals make statements and apologies like they can somehow be the voice for all of us.

I know myself. I know my opinion. I don't need anyone else telling me whether or not I should be offended. Neither do you. Stand up for yourself.

Anonymous said...

An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind. obviously you're not mahatma Gandhi but your way seems to be the type to enforce a vicious cycle. At least you tried. Fourfeetnine does it better and classier.

Angel Vanity said...

Shocked how you handled this situation. Even though I'm extremely nice, I would be too pissed to not care and make them feel as shitty as they made me feel.

Anonymous said...

Good post Qiuqiu! Ignore the haters in this post, you are right :) No one should accept being bullied, that makes zero sense, and it is just the "victim-blaming" culture we are in. Saying you are the bully for calling them out on THEIR bullying is ridiculous.

Anonymous said...

Qiu,

You have my support! We should not keep quiet and let people bully.

I've been following ur blog. Thank you for the many nice suggestion & recommendations on beauty.

You are beautiful & confident blogger with charisma. People jealous of you that's y they make rude remarks.

love,

caryn.

sho peishan said...

Qiu,
i support u.

Love, caryn

sho peishan said...

Qiu,
i support u.

Love, caryn

Anonymous said...

qiu,

u have my support.

love,
caryn

Anonymous said...

Qiu,

u r right. we shld not let people bully us, shld stand up for our right.

I've been following ur blog. Thank u for nice suggestions on beauty.

You r beautiful and confident blogger wif charisma. people jealous of u, so they post rude remarks.

love caryn

Anonymous said...

Cmon pipe the fuck down guys. If qiuting cannot take or handle criticism, why would she bother to allow these negative comments being posted on her blog? Look everybody is entitled to their own opinions, like you like her. She respected your comments and allowed it to be showned and what about the rest of you? This is HER blog, supposingly and in general THIS space is suppose to be all abt what she wants to say. All of us have mouth, even dogs, we voice out, you voice out, she voice out, SO MAY I KNOW WHERE HAVE SHE WENT WRONG BY PUBLISHING THIS BLOG POST. And.. to people who are firing her, you guys MUST be extremely happy that you finally could take this RARE chance and vent your VALUABLE COMMENTS. These, we call themare silent comp warrior. You people took this opportunity to spite her off when only the MINORITY are doing so. Why? Because: Cmon we are brothers, on the same boat let's fight and go against her! *shields behind each other' Reflect on yourself, eveybody has limit. 'Classy not trashy' she chose to handle this critics HER OWN TRADENARK way is that wrong. COMPARED TO THE AMOUNT OF SHITS SHE GET SHE ONLY BLOODY SHORT BLOG POST IS EXTRENELY FORGIVING AND NICE TO THOSE SAD LIVES. IT DOES NOT MAKE YOU A BETTER PERSON WHEN YOU POST COMMENTS LIKE THIS AND PEOPLE WHO ARE HAPPY AND SENSIBLE WONT AGREE JUST LIKE QIUTING, WHY? BECAUSE ONLY PEOPLE WHO HAVE CAME ACROSS TRAUMA OR SOME SORT OF WEIRD SHADOW NOT WANTING TO SEE PEOPLE STANDING HIGHER GREATER THAN YOU CAN AGREE TO THESE 'HUMAN'. REGARDLESS OF WHAT RELIGION GROUP YOU ARE, GOD IS WATCHING YOU. KARMA SEEKING YOU. YOU PEOPLE NEED SOME SERIOUS COUNSELLING.

GetOverYourselves said...

Some of you are SHOCKED by QiuQiu's post?

What's TRULY shocking is that people do not have the DECENY, RESPECT, or MATURITY to provide her with CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM and instead resort to RACIST, HATEFUL, and IMMATURE INSULTS.

Even if someone does not find QiuQiu attractive, there is a MUCH more PRODUCTIVE way to tell her other than ugly, slut, whore, bitch, etc.

That may be "JUST SOMEONE'S OPINION," but all that shows is what a disgusting and scornful person they are. If you are more than willing to leave such nasty comments, you were CLEARLY not raised with manners or respect. If you seriously feel the need to tell her how you feel, GROW UP AND GET THE COURAGE TO TALK TO HER AS AN ADULT! NOT AS AN IMMATURE CHILD SEEKING DRAMA!

It is SO easy for all of you to say QiuQiu shouldn't let someone's opinion upset her, but like she said, if you were in her position you would be upset too and lets face it - NONE of you would have handled the situation ANY better. In fact I have seen MANY of you (you know who you are) with MUCH worse reactions on Twitter when someone insulted you. GET OFF YOUR HIGH HORSE AND STOP ACTING HOLIER THAN THOU!

Just because she is a blogger and puts herself in the spotlight does NOT mean she should accept HATE, RACISM, and HARASSMENT! NO ONE SHOULD ACCEPT THAT! Stand up for yourself like QiuQiu did! There is NOTHING "low" about this blog post! If these people can post their "opinions" of her ON A PUBLIC PLATFORM FOR ALL TO SEE EVEN WITHOUT HER BRINGING ATTENTION TO IT and they do not have to deal with the consequences, why should she? She is NOT low, she is making a POINT! A point that even a child could see and understand unlike most of you imbeciles!

All it comes down to is if you are WILLING and especially if you ENJOY making such nasty and hateful conversation, you are making YOURSELF look bad - not QiuQiu!

Anonymous said...

omg the hell? SHE'S A KID SO SHE CAN DO ANYTHING SHE WANTS ISSIT? AND GO SAYING OTHER PPL IS A BITCH? WTF? YOU GUYS DONT KNOW WHAT IS CYBERBULLY ISSIT? THERE IS NOTHING WRONG QIUQIU POSTED THIS. IT'S HER BLOG, HATERS DONT COME IN LA. GET A LIFE! QIUQIU JUST SHOWING THAT SHE HAS FEELINGS TOO LIKE EVERYBODY ELSE. WHO SAYS BEING A BLOGGER HAS TO HIDE THEIR FEELING AND ACCEPT ALL INSULTS? WHO CARES IF THE "KID" DISAGREES, WHO MADE HER KING OF ANYTHING ZZZ
STAY STRONG QIUQIU! :)

Jovyne said...

Now i know why there are so many suicides which are triggered by cyber bullying... And there is no such crap that she's only 14 and she can't think or she acted in a moment of folly... Miss C can suck it up to the Mexicans for all she wants (pun intended) and i think her apology isnt sincere at all. Young kids these days gotta grow some brains...

Love,
Jovyne.

Anonymous said...

i totally get your point about how people aren't and should not be commenting (or i should say insulting) others in this way. don't worry/bother what others (in this case i meant those mean people that are commenting right here) have to say. :)

Heart said...

People need to chill, for real now.Fuckin mexican hipster can calm his tits. Que come meilda. Don't worry youre followers from the Dominican Republic have your back. :)

Anonymous said...

Funny how you're so terribly affected by a 14 year old's comment lol. You must have so much self-esteem

Anonymous said...

Wah sis, first time get so many comments! Happy happy!

Anonymous said...

You Must be on cloud nine miss popularity qq! How does it feel to have so many comments for the first time?:)

Anonymous said...

Haha concave boobs want to act tough siol.

Anonymous said...

Hahaha you so nonsencicalx cox you so petty

Anonymous said...

You're commenting on her nose? Seriously? LOLLL it just speaks that much of you HAHAHAH SHALLOW.

Anonymous said...

Wah you so jelly cos her nose is bigger than yours at least she doesn't need to go for plastic surgery to look normal

Lizzy said...

haha, I was extremely tempted to correct his grammar but it will take me all day and I dont like getting tweets about sucking his dick -____-

km said...

Hi QQ,

Support you 100%. Why sit down and take shit like this? And omggg the kiddo worrying what the perpetrator thinks of asians? WTF... who cares what he thinks.. pretty obvious his views are as terrible as his spelling. And yea, if kiddo wants to dish out views, be prepared to have it back.

Anyway there will be haters and lovers. Just wanted you to know you've got moral support here!

Polly said...

Qin, don't slam the girl for her nose. She was born that way, what can she do huh? At least she accepts herself. Miss C never said you were ugly or anything right? She just felt you were being immature. Slamming her really was just harsh.

Anonymous said...

Gosh, the girl is 14, you're 25! Pick on someone your own size & btw fighting with kids is totally mature....

Suz said...

You can't take insults? How will you survive in a world like this? Society is harsh, please learn how to live with it. Not bashing you or anything, but I really feel you should take this piece of advice....

Anonymous said...

Seriously ..LOL. How come some people can just attack and comment on others as they wish... but the person that got attacked couldn't just defend and stand up for themselves. She is actually in a way telling everyone, to be nice and not to be rude? isn't this correct ? Because seriously, some people can only learn through this way. in the first place, they should really control how they speak and comment on others. Plain Rude.

Anonymous said...

Both of you are victims here. She apologized, how about you? That's the least you can do right? After you publically slammed C..... She already has done her part & apologized. She may be in the wrong first, but you did exactly the same to her!

Anonymous said...

Really sad for you that your plan backfired. You wanted humiliate your haters, but you get bashed in the end. The good will always prevail as the saying goes.

Anonymous said...

Why everyone keep going she is a kid ? she is a kid ? If she is really a kid, she shouldn't be even be commenting on others using words like whore etc. The way she talks , it seems like she has already matured what??? She should learn lah. Now don't learn wait what? kids nowadays................

Anonymous said...

People say that C should respect Qiu, but why should she? Qiu herself doesn't present herself well & doesn't have good morals. You blame society, but you're part of it.

Anonymous said...

Everyone wants qiu qiu to take insults, then how come no one wants miss c to learn a lesson?? and Don't call her kid, she is already 14 years old. LOL !!!!! is 14 years old a kid? Is teenager lah please?! and teenagers nowadays love dramas and love to be gossip girls what !

Anonymous said...

THAT Little Miss C DESERVE to have her pictures put up and let everyone know how great a diplomat she can be. I don't think what QQ did was wrong, that Miss C ought to be condemned for her immature actions. She may be below 21, but that does not mean she should get away by Siding with a strange unknown man. At the end of the day, Little Miss C is certainly less influential and helpless. She apologised and wants her picture removed, that is because she is Ashamed of her Childish Actions behind a screen.

Anonymous said...

This matter is too overly exaggerated. Chill people!

Jason said...

miss C never called QQ any mean names such as 'bitch' or 'whore'... She just felt that QQ was overly exaggerating the matter & just voiced out her opinion. And please guys, don't tell me that when you were teenagers you were perfect & all? Don't tell me you were such an obedient teen! You yourselves aren't perfect, why is c treated differently?
I'm not saying that what c did was right, but teenagers will be teenagers. They do impulsive things. it's part of
Iife. I just don't like how Qiu handled the matter since she is 25 already. It's just a kid saying this, what do you have to lose? You could have handled the matter more maturely, Qiu. You don't like what C did, but in the end you're doing the exact same thing as C. Fighting fire with fire?
Since she said sorry, you should also do the same. You publically slammed her as well FYI.

Anonymous said...

I think the point of this post is not because Qiuqiu is upset about people saying that she is ugly(that would be superficial) but the way it is being expressed.

You can definitely express your opinion, but how is calling someone a whore, a slut, ching chongs a constructive comment? It is a personal attack. A racist one.

Suck it up you say? Can you imagine someone you don't even know saying those in your face? It doesn't mean that cause the comments were typed out, it means that it isn't insulting.

Honestly if you think this post was written cause the guy called her ugly, obviously you haven't understood the post.

And age is not an excuse. So say I'm 14 and I murder someone, can I say that since I'm underage I need not face the consequence? Since miss C told qiuqiu to suck it up, she should be able to suck it up and accept criticism towards herself right? (Which explains the photo) I get her point.

The photo is not to embarrass miss C, but to tell her that sucking it up, is not as easy as she may have thought it to be. (I think she knows now)

Yes she is a public figure, but it doesn't mean that a public figure has to take all this crap hurled at her. Its akin to saying "you are a public figure so you should learn to accept people who don't like you and if they slap you or hit you, don't resist." It doesn't mean that cause insults are not physical like slapping and hitting means that it doesn't hurt as much, or is not equally as wrong.

Honestly, what's with "ching chong" and "cooking noddles"? Even I feel offended when I saw these phrases being thrown around(and also cause they couldn't spell properly) and you ask her to just ignore?

I'll see how you guys there tolerate people calling you "ching chong bitches(or bastard)" from "panda express" and them hurling sexist, racist remarks at you.




Anonymous said...

Awesome, awesome post. You literally spoke up for everyone. As always, the awesome Qiu qiu. :)

Anonymous said...

Dont' worry, lots of people love you... you're a nice person. They're only bored with their lifes.
Hugs!

Nina Irojiro said...

Totally agree. Also, I hate that "be the bigger person" crap. Why should I prove that I am a bigger person by just ignoring someones evil remarks? That does not make me a bigger person, it makes me ignorant to people who behave badly.
That people have different opinions than you is a-okay, but calling someone mean things is just stupid and stupid people need to be told not to be stupid.

Anonymous said...

Alright Qiu Qiu after ranting out the anger... Move on and don't think about unhappy stuff anymore! Your dedicated fans will continue supporting you all the way!

Rose said...

While I may not agree with how QQ showcased the girl's picture, that Miss C girl is an idiot for actually /apologizing/ to those twitter boys.

Those boys and the comments they were making were absolutely /vile/. Ugh. Calling females "whores" and "bitches" and parading around like they're in the right. Just uggghh. Assholes of the highest order really. I'm not even the one targeted and it already makes my blood boil. Can't imagine how QQ must feel.

Miss C, I'm sorry but even when I was that young, I wasn't dumb enough to grovel at some jerks' feet and apologize to them about the /victim's/ behavior. Like oh god girl, stop embarrassing yourself.

You're apologizing to someone who was making not only RACIST insults about your own race but also derogatory comments about your own GENDER. Miss C, I'm sorry but that is just so dumb that it's giving me second-hand embarrassment just thinking about it.

Melony said...

I hate how people say "oh she's just a child" , come on now, "She's just a kid" remark is crap. Eventually this kid is going to grow up judging people and bullying people if she doesn't get a little critical word from. Sucking up to someone who made a derogatory comment towards woman, this girl got issues. What, just because she's young she can be rude, go hit someone, or probably kill. I'm 15, and I think it's stupid.

Jo said...

Eh jason, wah. Trying to be hero to c? Try harder. She was publicly slammed? For fucks sake, if C could have fucking tweeted about it, why cant qiu express herself using her preferred choice of social media? Use your fucking brains. If C has a blog, she can do the same. Whats wrong wit qiu expressing her own opinions on HER blog? Need your permission ah? Before you attempt to be a white knight, please attempt to use more brain cells first. Dont end up acting too smart. It exposes your age, child.

And you actually mentioned that qiu is behaving exactly like c? Another point you made yourself to prove that you really suck at reading. erm, so may i ask where did you see that qiu was tryna suck up to some man by apologising on twitter?
If you dont know howta use the word exactly, dont use it.

Before you even attempt to compare, please attempt to learn how to differentiate. Dumbass.

Anonymous said...

QIU, I've never commented on your blog before though I've been following you awhile, but I think I need to comment sth to support you and this post. WELL SAID!!! Nobody should have to take shit from people, despite their age. If they are old enough to use the internet then they are old enough to take responsibility for what they do on the internet.

Anonymous said...

ahhh qui how can anyone be this lovely? like srsly you're trying to be mad and bitchy and stuff but you're still cute and kinda nice to them wtf.
don't bother with people who insult others out of boredom, they need to stfu and get a life!

Noukster said...

some people are just sad and stupid that they leave stupid comments, which makes them stupid sad people.

QUIQUI you are the best and i always love your blog!
^_^


I think you are a very nice girl!

Just think of this quote: 'hater's gonna hate'
:P
Most people who leave such nasty comments are just jealous!

xoxo

Anonymous said...

Qiuqiu,
I support your stand in this post. It must be hard for you with so many people out there dishing moral advice in your face nonstop but they will never understand how it feels as they aren't in your position.
Age is irrelevant and what you did was appropriate. She wasn't a primary school girl that just learnt how to insult going about insulting people out of sheer 'fun' but she knew what she was saying even if it was a tad brainless/illogical/bitchy. So it's right she face up to consequences. Of course I wouldn't be happy with Qiu if she's my daughter or sister or what and feel as if the girl has been 'victimized' but seriously look at the ROOT of it all first. Don't blindly pick some age old topic like bulling/online attacks/popularity etcetc on the table because it is simply not relevant. Comments please reflect a bit of the fact that most of us had education ok?

PS: most Asians aren't like that

Good job Qiu!

Lesley said...

Those crazy Mexicans are just plain screwed. Period.
What i am upset about is the awkward and defence put up by our very own Asian gals when the whites are obviously stepping on us and calling us whores.
The new generation is worrying.
Ntg wrong with Qiu, she does not want to tolerate nonsense and insults. Wads wrong?

Anonymous said...

& the whole 'look like a bitch' thing is stupid.
If I don't smile I also look like I black face (hence I look like a bitch also) like that everyone also look like bitches sg population die liao la become puppy community. You try smile at me for every single moment continuously ok? then be my Shi fu I need to learn.

Someone please, give the poor girl a smile, it's vday!


Anonymous said...

Hey Qiu, I agree that sometimes, you should fight back. Otherwise, there will be people (like some people in this comment page) who thinks that hiding behind the computer and typing random insults to others, is okay. I'm sure this isn't the first time that you kept silent all these while. Just hang on and hold tight for this ride!

Anonymous said...

qiu u so kesian la;[ nobody know how to take insults, and why you deserve insults!! not fair! the mexican dick so bored so he left nasty comment, and qiu canot tweet his twitter?wth! people need to think from qiu 's side, dont think from your own side little miss c, fake face, i dont get it why people want people to like u when u re attacking people from the other side! qiu! jia you la, u know la, being famous is equals to getting alot of haters , but what doenst kill u makes u strongah babeh!^_^ qiu qiu wan sui !

mei1114 said...

to all the anon down there who are trying to protecting a so innocent 14yo kid!hello, u got ur own brain, u know u have to be responsible when u said something u think that wrong but maybe not but hell u did it
14 yo didnt mean brainless, dont compare age, compare brain level ok?

mei1114 said...

to all the anon down there who are trying to protecting a so innocent 14yo kid!hello, u got ur own brain, u know u have to be responsible when u said something u think that wrong but maybe not but hell u did it
14 yo didnt mean brainless, dont compare age, compare brain level ok?

Anonymous said...

Anonymous: Your scolding post is so cool! U are so garang to stand up against such abusive bullies! =)

Mitra said...

Qiu Qiu, I follow your videos and blog regularly. Don't let the bad comments stop you from what you are doing. All I can say is you have a very good soul.
Ignore these people. I am sure they are jealous of you and your popularity. That's why they are speaking shit.
God bless you with many more achievments in life. Love yaa.

Anonymous said...

really very low to shame people like that. no matter what they did. I don't like this side of you qq...

Anonymous said...

please show some class! qq you can do better than this :) just IGNORE these ppl. esp the mexican guy there's alot of losers who comment shit on the internet! don't get interlaced with such scums and even worse, make yourself look bad. :(

Simplyshow said...

All the stupid comments by most ANONYMOUS are from the idiot miss C and friends I guess! All defending her when it's her fault scolding ppl without knowing a shit! -.-" kid so what? I'm also 14 and this big a big diff meh? Kids can anyhow scold ppl, anyhow shit here shit there? All blame on Qiu. WTF!

Those ppl that want qiu to get a life, YOU GO GET ONE URSELF!!! it's not happening on u so u dk! And I guess you'll NV know as ur pic sure won't get on the popular page~ :p

Ps: that guy say you look like Japanese leh!! :D

Beata Pelc said...

QiuQiu if anyone is a bully then it's definitely that Mexican guy. I don't comprehend how someone can be so insensitive to insult ppl out of boredom. I guess ppl like that should be locked up. If someone was walking around the streets calling everyone names he would get arrested. Why is it allowed on the internet then?
This isn't normal!
QiuQiu is right no more taking shit from assholes.

Aggy t. Lee said...

qiu qiu i really love you and your blog but please ignore the trolls in the internet, it's not good for your health and also for public image as well. i know it's hard and i can see why you're upset but you're better than this.

Anonymous said...

I honestly think it was good of Qiu Qiu to stand up for herself. Besides if the same thing happened to you, would you "take the insult"? If Qiu Qiu had kept quiet,it would have meant she is worthless, wouldn't she? As for Miss C, she is 15 years old and NOT A KID. Teenagers need to experience what it is like on the receiving end of the stick before they post advice.

anting said...

I can't believe that the number of immature and mean people on social media :( It's good that you're standing up to them Qiu, I support you!

Minion Tea said...

I think Qiuqiu is right. Why does she has to suck it up while they are the ones who are wrong?

Finally there is someone who stands up against cyberbully and racist!

Why would miss C defend those bastards, they are insulting all asians. It's not low, it's awesome what Qiuqiu did.

Freedom of speech comes with respect.

Gabby said...

Qiu Qiu I love you! Don't take crap from anyone especially ignorant racist pricks that have no better things to do than judge someone based on a picture. You have every right to defend your self against disgusting pig headed people who think calling people sluts and whores is an okay thing today because they are behind a computer screen. It's appalling to see what he wrote in those tweets to you and how girls defended him! We women should not take any shit from men like that. Love reading your blog from America and hope to meet you and Xia Xue one day because your guys are my favorite bloggers :D <3 Gabby

Gabby said...

Qiu Qiu I love you! Don't take crap from anyone especially ignorant racist pricks that have no better things to do than judge someone based on a picture. You have every right to defend your self against disgusting pig headed people who think calling people sluts and whores is an okay thing today because they are behind a computer screen. It's appalling to see what he wrote in those tweets to you and how girls defended him! We women should not take any shit from men like that. Love reading your blog from America and hope to meet you and Xia Xue one day because your guys are my favorite bloggers :D <3 Gabby

Gabby said...

Qiu Qiu I love you! Don't take crap from anyone especially ignorant racist pricks that have no better things to do than judge someone based on a picture. You have every right to defend your self against disgusting pig headed people who think calling people sluts and whores is an okay thing today because they are behind a computer screen. It's appalling to see what he wrote in those tweets to you and how girls defended him! We women should not take any shit from men like that. Love reading your blog from America and hope to meet you and Xia Xue one day because your guys are my favorite bloggers :D <3 Gabby

Gabby said...

Love you Qiu Qiu! I believe that you have every right to defend yourself against pig headed racist disgusting people who give you crap. Why do people think we should just take the shit people hand to us and act like good little girls and say nothing or do nothing. I hate ignorant men/women like him that are only brave behind a computer screen and have nothing better to do than insult someone based on a picture or anything else. It pisses me off that men/women can call anyone a whore or slut without knowing them in the slightest and its considered okay because they are guys or girls calling other girls sluts. We should be a team not go up against each other. This post really got me steamed that people could treat you that way and say such nasty things. Loving your blog here in America and hope to meet you and Xia Xue my two favorite bloggers one day! <3 Gabby

Jasmine said...

Hey Qiuqiu just remember , haters hate. Ignore their comment. You are not in the wrong ! I will continue to support you! Don't get too upset anymore , they are not worst your time ! I love you! (:

Anonymous said...

Qiu, you are awesome for not taking shit from some misogynist dickheads. I don't even know why that girl was sticking up for scum like them.

Anonymous said...

If the mexican calling C bitch ching chong and all see she ok or not lo.. Since she feel no problem with him calling ppl names and being racist...

Kiken said...

<3 this post, QQ

Michelle said...

QiuQiu, you are beautiful and your fans from America love you and Josh ^.^ Keep up what you're doing because you're the one who got me into doing =D and ^.^ and also you have helped me a lot during the recent year with your happy, cheerful personality and your posts on The Magic when I was going through the teenage stage of being bratty. =) We love you QiuQiu, for you and you and your family. =D You are awesome

Anonymous said...

look at the amt of anon commenting, obviously it might be all that miss c's friends. aiyo. being 14 doesnt mean you can go arnd leaving such comments too. if you dared to make trouble why be scared abt your pic being publicised? why making this 14 yo girl suffer? in what way? so young alr so rude. qiu doesnt really do this but if she does it like writing a post solely on this type of matter you shld know how serious it is to her. some pple do not know the real standard and meaning of english. using bitch and so and so anyway you like. EVERYONE HAS HIS/HER RIGHTS TO DO WHAT THEY WANT AND HAVE THEIR OWN OPINIONS. it's only pple like this who created the problem first make the world a suckier place.

Anonymous said...

Everyone is entitled to give opinion and so is qiuqiu, she was just doing what miss C preached - giving her opinion. And since you guys agreed that it's just opinion, why are you getting so worked up? Mexican boy got opinion, 14 year old mature girl got opinion, qiuqiu also got opinion what. You all luan simi?

Anonymous said...

Everyone is entitled to give opinion and so is qiuqiu, she was just doing what miss C preached - giving her opinion. And since you guys agreed that it's just opinion, why are you getting so worked up? Mexican boy got opinion, 14 year old mature girl got opinion, qiuqiu also got opinion what. You all luan simi?

isabel said...

First of all, I love you. XD Let's make that clear. I think that this anonymous-person is one person trying to look like a lot of people... T.T

Second, it doesn't matter if she's a kid or not! She's trying to hurt people, and if you're old enough for that you're old enough to deal with the reactions too!

Again, you're aseome don't let these bad comments let you down!

Best wishes from Belgium!

Anonymous said...

#just sayin.. mexicans are the ones who wash our cars, mow our lawn and wash most of our dishes.. at least in southern california.

Nancy said...

Hello, im new to your blog and i'm from Mexico. (excuse my english :P)
I want to apologise in the name of all mexicans, because, we are not like that. I'm pretty sure those dudes just have mexican heritage and always lived in the USA, because true mexicans are nice to foreign people (you just have to visit our country and you'll be very welcome by all of us :D )
I'm glad you are smarter than them (=
Kisses and hugs ^.^

Courtney said...

I really don't think you did anything wrong. I saw something like, "discipline your children, before a prison guard has to." Perhaps these "innocent teenagers" who are massive cyber-bullies should take note. I think calling people out on their bad behavior is a good way to make them look like the idiots they are. When I have spare time, and I see rude comments on ANY photo on Instagram (whether someone I follow or not), I defend them. Why? Because being called names SUCKS. Even if you know without the slightest bit of doubt that it's not true (example someone called me a short Russian bitch once, alas I'm 173cm and Canadian, haha), so that doesn't bother me, but WTF seriously? You're a human being, just like they are. You don't randomly go attacking people. They shouldn't either. Cheers for standing up yourself.

P.S. The "go back to Japan" part is my favorite. Like, "gladly, thank you!" haha

Anonymous said...

I can totally see where Qiu is coming from and why she is so angry about it. Everyone gets judged in this world. You go out. You see people. You judge them. It's human nature. But for someone to speak their mind AND hurt others, that's just plain horrible. I don't think anyone should take this kind of bullshit (blogger or not).

And so what if Miss C is a kid?! Everyone makes mistakes and they should bear their own consequences. You should always think before you speak anyway. Some people just think that they can say what they want and get away with it. They act like the bullies because they think that people will just ignore their words/too weak to fight back. Why should we judge Qiu when all she was merely doing is fighting back?

Anonymous said...

Don't just criticize Qiu and C. It's that dude's fault that started all this.

mycatsaidso said...

I've never been able to rationally justify why some people would want to intentionally provoke others over the Internet. It's like they have nothing to do and are just leaving a totally unrelated comment insulting you and trying to pick a fight with you or something.

IMO it's not really an issue about opinions anymore. People like them are not really giving their opinions, they're just being downright spiteful and malicious.

I used to get mean comments once in a while in my previous blog. So what I did then was to edit the hateful comments with "--deleted--". It irritates the hell out of those spiteful people to know that I refuse to entertain them, so they just left me alone afterwards.

But anyway! Those people are just blabbering spiteful, baseless words, so don't take their comments to heart.

Anonymous said...

Be the bigger person and ignore the haters? What satisfaction do you get by putting these people on blast for the world to see. It puts yourself in an ugly lime light and causes unnecessary emotional distress for you.

Anonymous said...

Go Qiu Qiu, we have your back! :) Haters gna hate, let them be...

ใ•ใกใ“ said...

I'm cringing with the second-hand embarrassment from C's tweet to dimpo's friend. Is she really trying to "defend" us Asians? Please, I'd rather all Asians be like Qiu than her D:

When you are famous and put yourself in public, yes, nasty comments are to be expected, and developing a thick skin is necessary. I think you've done that pretty well, Qiu. I also think that you don't need to sit there and TAKE it. Don't say thinks you're afraid to back up. In life as well as online. I admire that you're following up on the rude people, and I hope everyone who leaves unwarranted nasty comments learn to think twice before doing so.

Mindy.H ♥ said...

Haiyo... Qiu never expect someone will attack you cause you are all friendly and peace loving! Ignore them bah, don't let the nonsense ruin your day! Stay cheerios!

Anonymous said...

JIAYOU , Qiu Qiu! :D

Carmen said...

What comes around goes around. Serve you right MISS C. If you got the guts to do it then you jolly well be prepared to face the consequences.

Jacquelin Liew said...

Qiuqiu, you must learn to take harsh comments even though nobody would like it. Anyway, just ignore those haters comments and life would be much better ;)

Cheers

Jacquelin Liew said...

Qiuqiu, relax! You must learn how to take harsh comments, even though nobody like it. Anyway, life would be much better if you ignore those haters comments!

Cheers ;)

Ennie said...

haaahahahahahahaha what is thissss omg cannot stop laughing at some of the comments. yup. so it's ok for kids to go on an online bashing spree because the adults who reprimand them will get bashed for being "too harsh".

NOPE. it's kids who need to man up. everyone thinks they're so cool, so ghetto, so whatever. somehow it's gotten into people's heads that it's ok for them to be total douchebags to other people, but the reverse is not ok. seriously, what kind of diva complex is this. kids gotta learn the hard way.

all you strange people who think that she should have sat back and kept quiet... geez, get a grip. i suppose all of you have skin SO thick you won't mind being called all kinds of names right? why don't you leave your names/emails/urls here and let us throw insults at you too to see just how thick your skin is.......

Anonymous said...

LOL asian bloggers, people

Anonymous said...

Retarded how some commenters trying to act noble and everything. Obviously one won't feel good after being bashed on without a reason. I'm in totally support for qiu qiu.

If u don't have to trouble, don't create or invite it in the first place. That "kid" deserved it. And qiu qiu didn't reveal any info or criticised her in anyway, she only expressed her thoughts about such people, using her as an example.

It's so funny how the world works. People is criticising those who got criticised. The victims are becoming the guilty ones and vice versa.

Don't try acting saint lah pls, obviously one gets heated up if he or she gets such comments. Those criticising qiu qiu for her actions, how different are you?

Supporting u qiuqiu!
BY.

Wanting said...

I don't find it wrong/low to post that little girl's face and comments? If that's cyberbully, you guys that post negative comments are also the same. LOL. Yea she's just a KID because her parents dont teach them we do it for them. If they can disgrace themselves why afraid others to disgrace them? People calling others immature, are you mature enough? If your MATURE you wouldn't have comment here but ignore it.